You Might Be A Hater, Sis.

I was having a conversation with a friend of mine and he said “you always see people on Facebook talking about their haters, but you never see anyone admitting to being a hater. Who are the haters?” I thought this was an interesting question. Do the people who hate and wish ill will to others…

Frenemies: Why Be My Friend If You Don’t Like Me?

We have all had those “friends” who talk bad about us behind our backs. They are the type of people who will always be there for you when we need a helping hand, but will criticize you when you are doing well.  This has happened to me more times than I can count. This is…

Why Low Self-Esteem Could Help You Find A Man

I have a lot of male friends and they give me a lot of insight on their views. Recently I made a post where I touched on the idea that intelligent men love intelligent women. Today I was texting a friend of mine and apparently it’s OK to be smart…just not TOOOO smart. Is there…

A Few Things Men Wish Women Knew

Are there things that men feel like we women just don’t understand about them? I wanted to find out. I asked a group of my guy friends from different ages, locations, and backgrounds and they say absolutely! Here are a few things that they told me that they wish women knew. You’re Not Listening Several…

How to Survive Past Relationship PTSD

It may be hard to believe, but repeated bad breakups can leave you with Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder. It can be hard to effectively move on to someone else because you are patiently waiting for the other shoe to drop in the back of your mind. It can be easy to rationalize in your mind that…

Pretty Privilege

Does your appearance give you an unfair advantage over others? Make no mistake, there are many types of privileged groups in the world. There are people who are thriving more easily in society than others due to the favor that their social standing gives them. There are people who have easier lives based on how…

Why We Have Trouble Taking Our Own Advice

A big part of any relationship is listening. It can seem that there are times when our friends have problems that never ever end and we are literally exhausted from listening. I was going through a hard time, and I’m quite sure I irritated all of my friends. I had the same problem for like…

8 Reasons Why Your Friend Ghosted You

If you know me, you know I try to be a good friend. We all fall short, but I really give it a good try. I feel that friends are the family that we choose. My family is my family and I didn’t have any say in that. My friends are in my life because…

We’ve All Been An Ariel At Some Point

I think that it’s absolutely amazing that Halle Bailey is going to be cast as Ariel in the upcoming Little Mermaid remake. She has a phenomenal voice and so much grace. I think it’s important that we teach our children that we can be different things, in different roles, and there is not just one…