Dating Outside Of The Culture

I have been dating my Black British boyfriend for a little over a year, and the assumptions that people make and the questions that people ask can get to be pretty ridiculous.  I get mad sometimes, but then I realize that media often portrays people in a very limited way (as they do all over…

I Don’t Need More Friends in 2020 and Beyond

I will start by saying that I value friendship. My close friends are like family to me. I am not the girl who says “I don’t have any female friends” or “I don’t get along with women.”  I do not feel that my gender is inferior. Women are more than capable of getting along with one…

Out Of Wedlock

Let me start by saying I am open minded. If you are not this may not be for you. In my life I have been exposed to different religions.  Some were because of my mother who is a devoted Christian and others because I took an interest in religion as a teenager and wanted to…

How To Make: My Partner Listen

Serves: 2 Prep time: A while! Please be patient. Total time: Forever… once you get started you will have to continue. Ingredients Attentiveness | 2 drizzles Kindness | 3 cups An Open Mind | 1 whole unbiased mind Humility | 1 whole soul Patience | A dash of calm Compromise | 1 pinch (to taste)…

For Better Or Worse

There have been reports that domestic violence and divorce rates have doubled during this COVID-19 Quarantine. Why can’t people get along? Shouldn’t spending time with your significant other be fun? Are we in such a daily routine that we don’t talk to our partners and don’t communicate with them? Is it just the frustration of…

Dating and Distancing

We are all tired of hearing about the sad things going on in the world right now. We know we need to be informed, but we also need breaks from it for the sake of our mental health. For those of us who are trying to keep our lives as close to normal as possible,…

Quarantine Quarreling

Thanks to the COVID-19 pandemic many of us have been stuck at home. All over the globe malls, schools, restaurants, museums, and other meeting places have closed. Many people are working from home because offices have closed down for the safety of their employees. With all of these closures, this means that you are stuck…

Timelines In Relationships

“When is he going to ask you to be his girlfriend? When are you moving in together? When is he going to propose? When are you going to have kids? When will you have another kid? WOW! You have so many children. Don’t you think you have enough?” Some of us have been asked some…

Multi-Dating: Is It Really A Good Idea?

One of my author friends Angel Sand asked a question on her Instagram. (You can purchase her book here.) The question was “How many people is too many to date at one time.” I thought this was an interesting topic because my views on the topic have changed recently. Let’s start with how I use…